I Have An Amazing Mother-In-Law...

My Mother-in law is the best. She's never not been the best. She's kind, loving and generous. She loves us and has never made it a secret. I on the other hand have not been the best daughter-in-law. Too much on my plate and not enough time to spend with her. Yes, I agree, I've failed.

These photos of us together are my favorite because she was visiting us in L.A. for Christmas. No one had taken a shower or even fixed their hair and she said "Let's take some photos. Rob looked at me. I looked at Rob and we both began to laugh. I said "Mom, we just got out of bed!" Her reply "Ahhhhh, who cares." They remain my favorite photos of all time.

She's a brilliant, magical woman and I'll tell you why today is so important in our relationship.

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Most of you know I feed feral kitties at the park every day. About 2 months ago I met a homeless couple on my way out. They were parked next to my car. I saw a chihuahua get out of their camper barely able to walk. It appeared to have a broken leg. You know me by now, I didn't hesitate to approach them. They were a lovely couple and said that they'd rescued him from the park a few weeks earlier. He was homeless himself. They had taken him to Loaves and Fishes (a wonderful organization you've probably all heard about) and encouraged to take him to their monthly Vet Clinic for treatment in a few weeks. I told them that I'd take him to my vet's immediately and bring him back once he was healed. They said no, they'd rather care for him because they loved him. They insisted they would get help from Loaves and Fishes. I said okay, but gave them all our numbers and my email address. I made it clear that if ever they needed me, all they had to do was call or email.

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Today, I received the call. I know to call me broke their hearts. They love their dog. Anyone who has ever loved a dog can understands the pain of surrendering him/her. But I was asked if I'd take him and without hesitation, said yes. They went to Loaves and Fishes and were told by the vet that he doesn't have a broken leg, but horrible ingrown toenails. He needs treatment they can't afford and they also realize the summer is going to be very hot and the camper is no place for a dog. He actually apologized for calling. That broke my heart. I told him not to worry, that everything would be okay and that of course I'd take their dog. We'll meet Monday morning after I feed the ferals and he will officially become my dog.

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I wondered how to break the news to Rob. Our house is so full and the money we spend on animals is insane. I simply told him the story, and that I was taking the dog directly to the Vet's from the park to have surgery for what ails him and have them give him a good bath, then bring him home to adjust. Honestly, Rob looked like a deer caught in the headlights. And then a lightbulb went off. Mom!!! A few months prior she mentioned she might want to adopt another Chihuahua. I said "Honey, what about Mom!?" We debated because he worries about her age, etc., but I know Mom's heart and picked up the phone and called over his protests. And just as I didn't hesitate to call her, without hesitation she said "I would love him!!!" Perfect match. That's my Mother-In-Law. She's perfection.

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Everything's going to be fine. We'll get his foot fixed, give him a good bath, nice food, a warm home, lesson in good doggie behavior if necessary and lovely walks in the park. Life will be beautiful. And no, I will never forget the homeless couple who helped in his journey and alway incorporate them into our lives. Why? Because they saved him. I will meet them periodically if they wish, show them photos, bring the dog for a visit, etc.. I sincerely believe that people who matter in an animal's life should always be remembered. Always. So on Monday, I'm a new parent, again. Briefly. And then my darling Mom will become a mom again to a beautiful little soul in need.

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I love you Mom. You know that. Thank you.

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XO

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P.S. The black and white photo of mom is my favorite. It was taken by a professional wedding photographer at a family wedding overlooking the ocean in Malibu.